Apr 16, 2018
So, here’s my question for you today -
Do you feel guilty about the idea of loving yourself?
Like it’s a selfish, arrogant, egotistical thing to do?
Let’s bust those beliefs straight up!!
Loving yourself not only transforms your life, it has a ripple effect that benefits everyone you meet. The awesome truth is that you ARE love. What’s not to love about that?
Here’s how you can start loving the fabulous woman you are:
Look at all the amazing work you’ve done throughout the past few
weeks as we have journeyed together through my Self Love Affair
process (you can catch up on all the video trainings over in
The Self Love
Hub . You’ve been uncovering and healing negative patterns
in your life – that’s powerful work! So, treat yourself to a
celebratory dinner, a candle-lit bath, a massage, a new outfit –
whatever would be special for you. Go on, you deserve it!
As women, it is our nature to receive, but most of us spend our lives giving until we burn out. You need to make yourself available to RECEIVE your desires.
Write a list of all the things you do for others. Pretty long, huh?
What on this list could you do for YOURSELF? Where could you ask for help and support?
Lady, you can be pretty mean to yourself! You’d never treat your best friend the way you treat yourself. It’s time to show yourself compassion and respect.
Write a list of 100 things you love about yourself.
If you need help, ask people you trust what they love about you. You can always refer to this ‘evidence list’ when you need reminding that you are loveable!
COMMIT TO LOVING YOUR BODY
Our wondrous bodies need to be cared for. Develop a friendship with your body and listen to what it needs.
In your journal, write at least 20 things you could do to nurture your body.
“I choose to love myself and care for my body by….”
COMMIT TO LOVING YOUR MIND
Our heads get so full of worries and to-do lists that we often forget the incredible power of the mind to guide our life anywhere we desire it to go.
In your journal, write at least 20 ways you could nurture your mind.
“I choose to love myself and care for my mind by….”
COMMIT TO LOVING YOUR INNER CHILD
You are the vulnerable little girl within you. It’s important to ask her how she is and what she needs. Do I need a hug? Do I need to talk to a friend? Do I need a day off work?
Write 20 things in your journal that you could do to nurture your child.
“I choose to love myself and show my inner child compassion by….”
COMMIT TO LOVING YOUR SPIRIT
When you have a relationship with your Spirit, you are able to relax and just be you. The criticism stops. You feel safe and at home. It’s wonderful!
Write at least 20 things you could do to stay connected with your Spirit.
“I choose to love myself and connect to my Spirit by….”
There’s lots more glorious stuff in this week’s Facebook Live.
Founder of The School of Self Love
P.S. I am speaking with women who are serious about creating deep transformation in their lives. My group coaching programme – LIVE LOUDER – is about to start up again. We have run this programme several times with great success. If you would like to talk to me about whether it’s the right fit for you, please click below. Very limited spaces only available!